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writes:Okay, i'm in a bind between these three guys. The first one, my boyfriend, used to be perfect for me. He was sweet, funny, and he loved me. This summer he went 4 hours away from me to go visit his grandpa, it was fine until about a month ago. He stopped calling me, stopped texting me, and if i called him he could only talk for a minute. And i understand that he was visiting with family, but he could still find a minute or two a day to call me r somethn right? Then theres the second guy, my ex. We were dating for about a year when i broke up with him because he stopped trying in our relationship. We were in love and i still love him, and it sound like he still loves me. He moved about 5 hours away from me and i dont know if i can hold down a long didtance relationship. He has a girlfriend already, but by the way he talks he wants to be with me more. He's funny and sweet and kind and always knows how to make me smile. then, the thuird one, my best friend. Weve been friends for years and he's always there for me. All my friends can definately tell that he likes me and i like him too. We have so much in common and we love spending time with each other. lately ive been thinking about being with him, and by the way he acts i think he wants to be with me too. He also has a girlfriend, and he doesnt think that theyll last much longer. But im so confused, should i stay with my boyfriend to see if it works out, try to be with my ex, or try for a brand new relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the help. i never really thought about my ex doing that, but now that you mention it it does sorta sound like him. thanks a lot! :)
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reader, xAx  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Your ex is your ex for a reason. And the fact that you feel he is being quite foward about his feelings towards you even when he has a girl friend is not good. He might be acting the same with other girls, but you won't know as he lives far away. Also, long distance never works, especially at your age.
I think that you should stick with your bf and talk to him about your feelings and see how he responds and if he changes. Otherwise i would go after your best friend.
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