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*ermaineh
writes: I have recently started to get really good friends with a girl in most of my classes at school. We usually go out in a group of 3 with another one of my lad mates. The thing is i usually feel strong sexual feelings toward her when we are together and i would love for us to be boyfriend and girlfriend.The thing is though when we are alone, (in the very rare occurance), i don't seem to feel the same. I also don't "fancy" her like i used to fancy other girls. Where i really wanted to be with them all the time. I really want to feel this for her but i just don't.It's now worrying me because i have stopped "fancying" girls for about the past year or so, and im now worrying that im gay and i have just not realised it.Please help me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jermaineh +, writes (6 April 2007):
jermaineh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks mitch. There has been a girl i really liked and never ended up with and another who i did end up with. The girl i did end up with never really lived up to what i thought our relationship was going to be.
And this has happened in a couple more relationships i've had, thats why i started to question my sexuality. Personally i have nothing against gay people but i just wouldn't want to be "one" (sorry if that offends anyone, didn't know how to word it).
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