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writes: hi thereI know I have been stressing and writing to you endlesly about the situation of my current boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years now and he has been relying on me financially. I was at a point where I really had enough and the relationship was taking strain. Now I made an effort to rigorously apply for jobs for him and I just tried one of the jobs which is 5 hours drive away. I spend sleepless nights applying for jobs for him and now I am worried the job looks promising and they might give the job to him. I am now running scared. As much as I wish for him to get a better job so he can support himself... I think the distance will kill the relationship. What can one do in this situation? We discussed the distance, he too is worried that the place is far, but what can one do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): why not think about saving money up and moving to where his job is?
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