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I'm worried I can't enjoy sex! I can't seem to feel anything...is this normal?

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Question - (10 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi, I was wondering how long it should take before you start to feel good when having sex? I went to have sex with a girl she was on top for a good minute or two but I wasn't feeling a thing so she just gave me oral which was a lot better.

Thing is now i'm worried I can't enjoy sex. I can get an erection no problem and excited but I can't even feel my penis moving when inside her.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (10 November 2006):

tux agony auntYeah in my experience women on top has been a good position if i really wanted to last longer because of less feeling for me.. though i never had the case where i didn;t feel anything, but it could happen.. Try other positions and go from there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

Ok this is a delicate one, for want of a better description she might be a bit "roomy" downstairs, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!.

I would suggest that you dont get your girlfriend too wet before sex as this does tend to desensatise the penis if there is too much lubricant.

try some other posistions, doggy is good for guys, get her to really stick her bottom in the air in this position it makes the vagina tighter.

And you could try you on top like the mossionary position but put her legs over your shoulders this has the similar effect to the doggy position.

And if you still cant feel anything, try the last position but hold her legs together and put both legs over one shoulder if you cant hold her legs.

ok hope I have helped.

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