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writes:I have a question for the guys out there. Ladies feel free to give your input too.I am just wondering why my husband like sex so much more when I am wearing stockings and heels during sex? Sometimes I feel like a whore because of wearing them during intercourse. Reply to this Question
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reader, st_rick1234 +, writes (12 July 2010):
Because they are sexy and has nothign to do with looking like a whore.
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reader, bandido +, writes (2 October 2008):
There is absolutely nothing whorish about wearing stockings and high heels... I find it to be unbelievably sexy. My wife wears them as often as I can get her to, she dresses up in sexy outfits; business suits or sexy lingerie. Believe me, this adds spice to your sex life and if your husband enjoys it as much as me...
You can not only seduce him anytime you want, but even tease him when he's not home; tell him you're picking out a sexy outfit for tonight, tell him that you're looking for stockings and high-heels to match -- ask him which ones he prefers. Don't mean to be vulgar, but usually men who love stockings and high-heels love a good "foot" job once in a while...
Remember, you're in complete control and it's only you and him... Have fun with it, it should make you feel sexy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Men just like to fantasize. There are just things which can't be done (taboo). For example, having intercourse with underage girl. Therefore, some guys might ask his girlfriend to wear a high school girl costume. Some might want you to look kinky, and will ask you to dress up with stockings, lingerie, etc. Don't have to feel like a whore. Just play along with the game. My boyfriend and I, we are so adventurous and like to try everything. I have dressed up for him. But, I think it takes special person to make you feel all right when you dress up with certain kind of costumes. I have never done such thing with any of my ex bf. But I feel so comfortable to do it in front of him, and do some other things. And it doesn't make me feel like inappropriately cuz I am not insecure. I trust him that he will always respect me and will never look at me that way. And it turns me on as well. There are times when I don't want to dress up, and it is OK for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Thanks for all of your answers. I asked him if he had other fantasies. WOW is he a freak (yummmmmy) We are having fun with the fantasies.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (22 September 2007):
Throughout history women have used high heeled shoes to aid their figures. By standing up comfortably in a pair of high heels the butt naturally gets pushed out further behind and consequently the breasts get pushed further forward therefore making them seem bigger than they are. Because of this over the years the male race regards females who wear these shoes especially when accompanied by stockings as somebody who is making the effort to look volumptious and therefore may well be up for a bit of fun with the opposite sex. It is just that automatic reaction that goes on in a blokes brain. It also comes across a bit taboo or a bit naughty and there is always a great feel about a little bit of naughtiness.It's a bit like blokes liking their girls to dress up with uniforms (Nurses - Policewoman - School Blazer - PVC etc.) Some of the PVC uniforms are a lot less revealing than most clothes so it is not always the slutty look that works. The main reason they like it is the raunchiness and the fantasy attached to it. No matter how you look or what you dress with - if it is with your bloke behind a shut bedroom door then it does not matter what you may look like. Maybe he could dress up for you occasionally so you could both have some fun. Years ago I had a girlfriend that loved dressing up as a victorian prostitute with the bustier and really got off on me dressing up as a catholic priest where the fantasy for her was to get the priest to break his vow of celibacy. It was great fun for me and great fun for her. I would never have gone outside dressed like it (As a non religious agnostic) and neither would she.Just make sure you have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): It's the glimpse of white thigh, the different sensation when fondling the stocking top area - smooth flesh, rough susps and nylon. It accentuates the visual effect of looking at the groin - especially with matching knickers and bra - it draws the attention to that area. The heels make the legs look longer and the calves thinner.Then when you get down to business the sensation of having stockings rubbed up and down your legs and back and other places is out of this world. Phwoaaaar! Also there's something about black with red bows. Well, there is for me anyway!It doesn't affect all men the same way though. I know at least one guy that doesn't get excited by stockings and suspenders. I never could understand him and he's not gay either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): Thank you all for the input. I do feel better about it and I will ask him about other fantasies.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (21 September 2007):
 You know what they say, to please a man you have to be Martha Stewart in the kitchen, and a prostitute in the bedroom. It can be fun if you just play with it and enjoy your secret, sexual role. Being naughty in the bedroom is the most fun of all. Just don't do anything you feel totatlly uncomfortable with, or degraded. Good luck.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 heals are femine and make women look radiant when wearing them with stockings. the sexual fantasies men dream about are usually of someone very sexy and femine and with heals, so you are living his fantasy and he should be very grateful but it's just one of the things that add to sex appeal!
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reader, Sandman +, writes (21 September 2007):
 You feel like a whore - and you probably look like one too when you're wearing that outfit - which is probably why it turns him on.I'M NOT CALLING YOU A WHORE! I'm saying it's the taboo. You looking like someone or something else he might find desirable - but it's still you! Check all the posts where men are asking to be with other women or the woman is finding them with other women and things like that. However, if you feel dirty and stuff when wearing that outfit - let him know. If he's acting out a fantasy - there may be others you can try that don't make you feel like a whore. Give it a shot, what have you got to loose?Hope this helps.
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