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writes:Well, oka here goes. I really don't know what I'm on this website for but i need some help. Well basically i think i might be bi. I'm 16, so i've had relationships in the past, with guys. They've all gone well and i enjoyed the stuff we did together. So i defiantly know i'm attracted to guys. But lately i've been starting to look at girls differently. I'm starting to notice them more. I don't look at girls and think "wow i'd love to be her girlfriend" but i kinda could see myself having sex with another girl. So i really don't know what to do. I can't exactly act on it or experiment, because i don't know anyone who's lesbian/bi. I really need some advise.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Well thanks guys, that did help. But i can't have a relationship with a girl at the moment, well i need to either wait until i move out or hide it. Becuase my dad is sooooo homophobic, i mean he can't even watch a program with a homosexual person on it. It's sad really. :/ x
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reader, shiori  +, writes (19 March 2011):
You might actually like girls. Try out a relationship with a girl. They are more gentle than guys, and they won't betray you.
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reader, Blod +, writes (19 March 2011):
 First off, don't put so much pressure on yourself. I know it's natural to do that but the reality is that it's a lot more complicated than straight-bi-gay. It's not black and white. You know you're attracted to guys, but confused when it comes to girls. You've figured that while you can have relationships with guys, you're not sure about girls although you do feel some sort of sexual attraction. How can you put a label on that? How do you even define which sexuality you are? It's not that simple. Don't worry about putting a label on your feelings. Go with what you feel. You'll work it out with time so don't worry. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): I am also 16 male but i discoverd i liked boys when i was 12 . Some people go through phases, some dont! I didnt. How long have you had these thoughts
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