I'm way more into him than he is to me

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We have talked almost everyday since than..but never met in person. Over the past 2 years we fell in love. But we are not and never were in an exclusive relationship. He has had one girlfriend since we've been talking (lasted about a month or two..not that I was keeping track ha). I've wanted to be in a relationship with him for a long time..but he's not ready for that step because we have not yet met. He lives in ny..im in mn. So pretty much I am wondering if I should just back off..or give up..or do what i'm doing. I feel like i am a pest whenever i text him, and always feel needy. He says he loves me, misses me, wishes we could be together..yet he never really calls, doesnt attempt to skype me. I do keep in mind he is a busy man with two jobs and a student. He says he's not kooking up with girls and says he wouldnt do that to me..but he is always being "sneaky in my opinion. I am just lost, confused, alone and missing him. I am way more into him than he is into me. helpppppppp!!!

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