A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Over the past few years Ive heard lots of tales of the infamous "3 minute man" but when it acctually did come time to lose my virginity at 15 my expectations of myself were quite low, now my girlfriend is quite attractive and I have no troble geting stiff and precum isent a really big deal its just the fact that I dont feel a whole lot when she does anything, my penis isent numb or anything but when she preforms oral or even sex with or without a condom (tryed both) Im never able to cum I just cant seem to get there we must have done it at least 30 times but with no sucsess on my part she has no problem reaching orgasm but sadly im losing intrest in sex because there isent really anything for me to look forward to. I timed myself the otherday and even after 50 minutes of continues motion during intercorse I dident even feel like I was half way there any Idea what might be wrong?
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Firstly you are very young to have lost your virginity anyway, secondly i think that it is important to practice safe sex so all ways were a condom during intercourse.
Masturbating when you are alone may help to determine whether there is a physical problem or an psychological issue. If you are able to satisfy yourself and cum then there are two possible outcomes:
1) You may be nervous during intercourse and worrying far too much about what you are doing as a pose to letting yourself go.
2) You may find it useful to read up articles on the net in relation to foreplay ideas to get you both stimulated before intercourse and also try a few different positions to help spice your sex life up.
Alternatively if you are unable to Cum when masturbating as well I suggest going to speak with your Doctor for further tests.
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