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writes:I have a confusing situation going on right now in my love life. It all started about 8 months ago at a party when i hooked up with a guy named John whom I knew but never really thought about it THAT way. After we hooked up, it was a little awkward seeing him at school and hanging out with friends etc. You see, him and his friends are all good friends with all of my friends so we always see each other and party together. Well, at first I didn't have feelings for him at all, but then I realized I had a "thing" for him. Not big enough to act on, but I've always had a thing for him that I can't deny anymore. This is where my question comes in, I met his older brother a couple months later and liked him. We didn't start dating until a few months ago and we were totally in love. I was in love with him, and he loves me a lot. BUT, as time goes on I do not feel the same anymore. My boyfriend annoys me sometimes but he loves me so much and i could never break up with him. We always hang out with his brother, John, and I recently realized I'm in love with him. I've had dreams about him and kissing him, even when I was in love with my boyfriend. I feel like we would be good together and we're more compatable than me and my boyfriend, his brother. What should I do, I truely think John and I could work, but boyfriend would be crushed..
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reader, rockelle +, writes (26 December 2007):
 Good, I hope everything works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you two for your advice. I think I'm gunna take it and just let things go with his brother and move on.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (24 December 2007):
 If you're no longer in love with your boyfriend, the kindest thing you can do would be to move on. However you will have to give up the idea that his brother and you will work out. Your best bet is to move on and put some time in between you.If you and the brother are meant to be (unlikely), then many, many months from now you can try to rekindle things. But I would let it go for now.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (24 December 2007):
Forget about your boyfriends brother that is a no,no. If you are truly happy with your boyfriend then you should not be having those type of thoughts anyhow. Maybe it is not a good idea for all of you to hang out together, at least until you get over it.
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