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anonymous
writes:My problem is i act too much like a friend and end up never being the girlfriend :(basically all the guys ive dated or liked, have always treated me like a good friend, sum1 they will share all their secrets with, sum1 to go for when they need advice or sum1 just to have a pint with in the pub, i carnt help be who i am... i like helping people if they need advice and if someones sad then i'll always try to cheer them up, but this has become a big problem for me now! I dont know how to show a guy im interested in him, every guy i meet just ends up becoming a good friend :( ive been single for a long time now, and i just want to meet a guy who wants to go out with me instead of just 'chilling' with me .. but i honestly dont know how to .. please help :( xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay im going to do it, im going to ask him out, we could go to the cinema and for a meal? that would be alright wouldnt it? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for answering and yes you are right in what you say, i do have a lot of guy friends and that may be the issue,i guess because im so use to hanging out with guys when i meet a guy i fancy i just treat him the same even though i dont mean to.
all my friends think im single out of choice aswell, because i get on well with guys so much they think that i like to just get loads of male attention which isnt the case, im just looking for one special guy, but it seems when i find him i dont know how to show him he is different than my other guy friends, i carnt make the first move its just soo embarassing for me :( sorry i know im not helping myself either its just really confusing though x
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