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I'm tense about my husband talking to our neighbour, a lady.

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Question - (13 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2011)
A female India age 41-50, *reeda writes:

My husband talks to the lady who is our neighbour by hiding from me. I m really tensed about it. He says me she is just a friend. Her husband is also unaware about it....my husband tells me that she is just a friend an now they have shifed to another place and he goes for a round and I caught him and saw him so he was puzzeled and says me she is just a friend. I have a thought that he talks to her from some pco. So what should I do.m..

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (13 May 2011):

Honeygirl agony auntIf he is hiding the fact that he is speaking to your neighbour then, yes, there is a problem. The other woman's husband is also unaware of them...mmmm.... maybe it is time to invite the other womans husband with you and show him that something is wrong.

If something has to be hidden from one's spouse, then there is definitely something wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011):

If she is "just a friend", then why hide it? If I talk to a male neighbor, I am usually standing in my yard or on the street, in full view of anyone who might see us, including either of our spouses, because I know I am just making casual conversation. If he has to sneak around to talk to the neighbor, you can bet that there is something that one or both of them is trying to hide.

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