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writes: ok hi everone my problem is im 16 i think i might be gay or atleast bi, oh yeah im a girl by the way, i have had strong feelings towards one of my mates for 5 years since i was 11, i snogged her when i was 12 but it was a one-off but ever since i can't drop these feelings for her, at first i thought it was just for her but now im getting feelings for my other best mates sister who keeps coming on to me but claims she's only having a laugh, i would like to accept myself as bisexual but i just can't come out its too hard. so i need advice about the feelings of my mate i snogged, my best mate's sister who keeps making me feel strongly towards her, am i really gay or bi and if i am what should i do?if u answer i'd b really greatful.p.s i wanna get my eyebrow pierced do u think i should get it and does it hurt?
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reader, sam_14  +, writes (12 October 2007):
i have an eyebrow piercing, it did not hurt me one bit...and it looks pretty cool. but like what i did was i chose a small barbell...i heard it is unwise to get the barbells where the part that passes thru ur brow is thick, cuz then obviously its more painful, and if u ever decide to take it out, its more noticeable, where mine, is quite small n subtle...but its still really noticeable (the fact that my brow is pierced)...hope that helps with the eyebrow piercing. i also want to say...that when i got mine done it was fairly taboo, but now i'd say that its widely accepted, girls with eyebrow piercings can be quite attractive :)
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (7 May 2006):
 Ok, not to alarm you, but evryone goes through the i-think-im-gay phaise. Ive went through it, and it last it about a month. You may be bi or gay, but first you need to come out and say it. You body is bi or gay, but your mind still thinks that you should be straight. You cant change the way you are, and neither can any one else.
I dont know if you should get your eyebrow pierced or not. If you will clean it, take care ofit, if your allowed to get it done, and if you have the money--- yea get it done.
good luck
Robin
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): i think that you're one confused girl. you're obviously young and you're not sure of things yet. you may just be curious of how it would be with another girl. sex obviously feels good no matter who or what touches you, if your girl touched you, your obviously going to like it, but it doesnt mean your lesbian or that its right. dont go out and let yourself be known as a lesbian or bi, you might find what sex you're really into later and regret being with girls. its normal to feel the way you do considering that you say that you had an experiance with your friend when you were 12, all you were doing was being curious at the time and now you're confused. you think you might be lesbian because of it. it doesnt mean your lesbian. you're unsure of all this right now and if it doesnt feel right that means it problaby isnt. go to a counselor and explain your situation. go out and date boys. im not saying that lesbian is wrong, im just saying that its not easy living as a lesbian because you have to deal with public critizism, and if you're unsure of being lesbian, you shouldnt claim yourself do be lesbian, and if you do you might regret it later if you're unsure right now and have to deal with all the bad critizism and live with it for nothing..and whats that all going to do...its going to tear you apart and you're going to feel so bad. just take it slow, ignore the girls for right now and go out with boys. dont be so worried about it. its problaby just a phase your going thru or like i said you're either confused or you're just curious. but like i said dont do something now that you know you might later on regret. as for the peircing on the eyebrow..dont do it, i hered its quiet painful. hope this helps.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (6 May 2006):
 how can you be sure you either are or not. What makes you think you are gay. By the way I have heard of peierced eye brows do not do it
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