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writes:My ex and I broke up almost a year ago and I still cry over him all the time. I don't know how to get over him and I keep trying to move but it isn't working. My relationship with my ex seemed perfect and I think the reason he left was because he got scared. The last time we saw each other he kept hugging me and it seemed like he didn't want me to go. I thought he was just saying that he didn't want to be together, because he told me this once before but ended up calling me again. When we broke up he got back together with his ex and they moved in together. I know they don't get along that well so I don't know why he got back together with her. I just still love my ex so much and don't know how I can get over him. I keep trying to move on and I am not happy with anyone else. How can I get through this and will I ever be happy with anyone else? I just wished things would have worked about with my ex and I don't know what to do.
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (5 April 2010):
You must forget him! Since he went back to his ex shows that he loves her more than you. This is a cruel truth but I feel that all girls should learn to face such facts. Do not continue to wait for him leave your options open. There are many many more great guys out there trust me =) I am one perfect example, being dumped by a jerk and got chased by a prince =)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 If you love him , you want him to be happy .
You need to forgive him and bless him.After you have forgiven him , you will find closure and you can move on.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 You need to find a way to all this emotion into another part of your life for the better. I'm sorry I can't really explain how but focus on something you love and don't give up trying to find a guy to fill that void. When you do find one its amazing how problem can disapear even if you think they won't. Spend time with friends and try not to just sit around and think of your ex. I know its hard and I've been there before but every new day has the potential to take away all of your pain.
Best wishes.
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