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writes:well this is sort of for my friend(s)??im a 18 year old bi sexual guy and my best friend is a 17 year old straight girl.. i will name her paige for this and she has been seeing a guy who is now 20 il call him micheal, well they have been seeing each other for about 3 years now. and ive stuck by them both pretty much all the way, ups and downs, lefts and rights, you name it ive been through it with them as their sort of aid to each other.well recently paige's ex has died it was a long distance relationship but really got to her. she fell out with micheal and left it at that because of all the arguments they go through but 5 months on she starts seeing a new guy, im talking to her ex casually and i get a text from paige the text says "he's a nice guy i just dont wanna be with him, im thinking of micheal too much" so i told micheal about this new guy who she was seeing and asked how long i told him about 2 months and he said "well she can't of been, are u sure it's 2 months?!" yes i replied and he was totally distraught. i asked why to hear a reply that they had just had sex a week ago and it isnt the first occasion. this left me confused and i dunno stranded in this situation as paige never told me about these incidents! she has always made a drama out of everything could this just be another one of her Dramas? micheal is currently asking me to find out how long she's been seeing this new guy for definate and how serious they are, which i have nvo problem against. i want to know just as much as micheal! well im kind of stuck in the middle can i have peoples veiws what they would do in this situation?
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 It's time for you to back out from between them. Telling Michael something so hurtful that Paige obviously didn't want him to know should be the signal to you that you were way out of your depth.
You're young, and this is your first experience of why getting too involved in other people's business is a bad idea! Take the lesson and say "Thank you" to life.
If Paige or Michael asks you to convey messages to the other one tell them to speak directly to each other.
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