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writes:this really isnt a relationship problem but its deff a problem...okay well since a recent brake up with my bf i have had very low self esteem. I used to have an eating disorder, I was always working out and finding some way to lose weight. Well now My self esteem is low and I just hate they way I look, I have been eating so healthy in reality but I made myself throw up a couple times and it did it for me, but I dont want rotting teeth and all that. I dont want to eat but I play on 2 fast pitch softball teams and if I dont eat I feel very weak. I dont eat breakfast at home or lunch at school. The only time I get 3 full meals is weekends. I just want to lose weight so bad. I am 5"3 and im 14. Im starting to obsess over my weight again, I think I have a problem...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not 16 im 14.....
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reader, strawberryflower  +, writes (22 May 2008):
I've had similar problems, but at the end of the day letting food dominate your life really gets you into a cycle which is hard to come out of. I've realised that guys like girls with weight on them, you'll fell healthier and have more energy to do sport. I was constantly feeling ill when I was underweight and couldn't shake illnesses off. At 16 aswell you've got massive exams coming up, and food really is essential. If you feel you should see a GP or even confide in a family member or friend. Just don't let it take over things again. Best of luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not bulemic and i had anorexia nervosa. it wasnt serious yet tho, Now that my bf broke up with me for another girl (everyone says im better) I juss feel terrible. I cant cope anymore because I always find a problem with myself. I only threw up a couple times...if i did this does it make me bulemic?
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (19 May 2008):
 You need professional help. No one on here will be able to help with your bulimia. It is a serious problem that can also lead to anorexia nervosa. Just us telling you to eat more won't do anything. A licensed therapist will be able to get to the root of your problem and how to overcome it. Good luck and please get help.
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