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writes:This will sound strange, but i am 22 and i seem to have really weird emotional issues. i'm stalking a girl my boyfriend was seeing for 2 weeks while we were on a break back in january. she was devastated when he left her to get back with me but shes long over it now but i still check her myspace everyday and i'm ashamed to admit this but i have even gone as far as to make fake myspaces to email her from, not saying horrible things to her or anything, but just saying hey and sometimes mentioning me and my boyfriend just to get a reaction from her. i dont really know why, i think just to see what is going on in her life? i think i want her to still be jealous and hurt because he chose me over her, and i dont want her to be happy. i know that is a horrible horrible trait to have and i wish i didnt feel like that but i do. she is a really beautiful girl - much more attractive than I am and she has a very full life with a lot of things going on in it, which I don't. Am i a psycho?
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reader, handyme  +, writes (1 December 2009):
Hey, it's very big of you to post this and admit to stuff you want to work on. I know this is hard, but I've been in similar positions, so i think, especially since you have him back and that is so great--you should take a cue from her and also build up a very full life of your own. even if it starts with something simple, like starting to read more, having a little party or dinner party at your house with him and your friends, scheduling a couple visits with your family--anything that makes your life a little fuller a little busier--see what you can do to improve your appearance or wardrobe etc.--take pictures and put them on facebook or myspace--not to make anyone jealous--but just to gradually build yourself up to a full, dynamic life as well. you already have him back, now he can love you even more. this is just to keep the relationship fresh. i like to follow the rule that your boyfriend will stay in love with you if you keep yourself as desireable and capable of stealing his attention as you were when he first started dating you.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hi,
I think that you are jelous of her. Otherwise why would you do something so cruel.
You have your man back, and she has at last moved on, so you need to as well. Stop doing this or it will consume you, and its not normal. Its ok to be a bit curios but this is going to far.
Just be happy with your life, and move on.
Take care XX
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