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writes: This is kind of hard to write so please try and stick with me and please try your best to help me please! OK, I'm 16... I really really care for this girl and I have liked her for 5 months, but for 3 months of that I never saw her and I really did miss her a lot. I would cry because I missed her. I can remember exactly how I met her and some of the times out we had together. We clicked straight away! I'm sure at one point we really both liked each other a lot but now she has a boyfriend and I only blame it on myself for not ringing her because if I did it might have been different! But at first when I found out she had a boyfriend it didn't bother me and then when my mum and dad were out later on in the day I was in tears and I was tensing so much it hurt and I was red all over! I was so mad... not just the fact she had a boyfriend but the fact that it could have been me. But I still like her! She is 15.I have also started talking to this girl who I can talk to about anything now. We are close and I like her but I'm not sure if she is attracted to me, but I know she knows she can trust me with a lot of things. Anyway she hasn't got a boyfriend and she has already been heartbroken but I think there could be something there - she is 14.This is the awkward bit. Whenever I think of one of them the other one comes into my mind at the same time and I just don't know who I care for the most! It gets me all mixed up about what I want from them... like do I want a relationship with this person or what? The thing is as well I can't tell them how I feel at the same time because they are best friends and cousins! Can anyone please help me???
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reader, camille  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 It's perfectly normal to like more than one girl and especially at your age I'm surprised it's not more as hormones are very prevalent. Don't fret too much about whether to have a relationship as there's plenty time for that. You don't have to date either. It sounds like you like the first girl more and the other one is just your friend. Don't go out with her just because she hasn't got a boyfriend. Don't rush it. You'll know when it's right to start a relationship and it'll hopefully be with someone who likes you as much as you like her and hasn't already got a boyfriend.
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