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I'm so confused and I love her and want her to be happy!

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Question - (25 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *onfussed? writes:

Hi for the longest time I have always been into boys but there was a part of me that seemed to like girls. well I met this one girl at work and she is amazing! and well she asked me out! I love her like I have never loved before and we want to have sex but I have never had sex with a Girl before! My question is what do I do, how do I do it? I'm so confused and I love her and want her to be happy! So please can someone help me??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

Hi honey, if this girl knows you've mainly dated guys b4 shes going to guess its your first time with a girl and not expect the world just yet! I bet you were just as nervous the first time you had sex with a guy right? Felt a bit nervous, awkward and self conscious but it got better the second and third time. Its the same with lesbians, chances are she knows what shes doing and will take the lead until you feel comfortable, my first girlfriend did and we had a great time! Trust her, tell her if your not ready but most of all be who you are and enjoy yourselves. x

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHi, well lesbien sex can range from a lot of things, it can involve toys, foreplay and oral. You both need to talk about it and see what you both want :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything :) x

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