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writes:i dont understand. it happened again.last year, there was this boy older than me who liked me. i didnt like him one bit, i didnt even give him the time of day. he couldve been quite nice, i dont know. i avoided him like the plague. and i remember having this feeling in my gut, always being nervous and depressed.now again. i like this boy, and everything was going according to plan. my friends and his started hanging out and it was only a matter of time before i could hang out with him. and then this other kid started liking me. and its really hard to say no because everyone gave me a lot of crap for ignoring that boy last year. i dont want to have to go through it again, because im sure hes really nice. i just know i dont like him like that. and now theres all this awkward pressure and stuff.when i think of the kid i like, i feel calmer, like everything is okay. and then when i think of the one that likes me, i get so down and nervous.i cant say that i like this one kid either, because it'll ruin my chances with him. so everyone keeps telling me if i dont really care, then why dont i just go for the one that likes me? and i say well.. i prefer the other one. but they disagree. and tell me hed be great with me.im sick of people telling me what i do or do not like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Always go with your gut feeling, if you feel down and crap when you think of someone then run like hell, they are going to make you feel even worse when you are around them. Never be pressured into or out of something because of other people, that is the worst move to make. It is your life, not there, be strong and stand on your own two feet and make your own decisions.take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): dont listen to what other people say.they arent you and they dont know who you are attracted to.the only person who knows is you.you dont need to listen to what other people say and tell you that you should like the guy that likes you,go with what you feel in your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): dont listen to what other people say.they arent you and they dont know who you are attracted to.the only person who knows is you.you dont need to listen to what other people say and tell you that you should like the guy that likes you,go with what you feel in your heart.
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