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female
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30-35,
*lliehoff
writes:I need to learn how to be more open around guys,I get soo shy,it doesnt make any sense to me when i see other girls flirting and i cant do it! I think im afraid of rejection,or maybe im just a shy person.How do i learn how to have more self confidence?
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Just remember that you are special in your own ways, don't worry about how other girls act. It is better to find someone who appreciates you the way you are than to try to be someone you are not.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Don't worry there are shy guys as well. A lot of boys don't like girls who flirt a lot as they think that they will go out with another boy when they get bored. So when you meet a nice girl who is shy you know that she will be your friend and won't gossip to her friends about you. What is wrong with that!
So just be yourself, if you are in a group and you like a guy just find something he's interested in and it's easy to talk to him. Boys like sport,action films,computer games, a lot of stuff. It's just a case of finding something in common, dont worry chances are the guy will be really nervous as well. ( I was at your age!! )
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