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I'm self-sufficient and attractive, but only seem to find losers -- why?

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Question - (22 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2009)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I have been waiting and waiting for my so to be called bf to commit. spent a fortune on a holiday to be near him. Only saw him for 3 out of 14 days. Decided that was the last straw.

Trying to make links with new people via dating agencies as I do not seem to meet any out at work or any where else.

I feel that I am going to come across desperate as I want to get married. I do not want any more children. Just companionship and security. I am quite self sufficient and independent but hate spending weekends alone, holidays alone, christmas alone. I am 46 tomorrow. never married. Just wasted 26 years of my life with losers.

I am a mixed raced attractive women. I own two houses. I am in good shape. I earn good money - what's wrong with me?

Any advice welcomed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009):

hi at our stage in life its natural to want companionship and security there is nothing desperate about it.

there are lots of people out there looking for the same as you, those dating agencies are a great way to go, im sure once you have filtered out the bad ones the dates will start.

date as many as you need too untill you find what you are looking for. It will come!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009):

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I think you have just been unlucky. Da right person for you will come along soon.

I wouldnt change yourself, just relax and dont rush things, youre still in your prime and youll find your mr right.

Id love to have a chance with you, you sound amazing.

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