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writes: Hey everyone,I've just started a new college and last week was the 'induction' visit where we went for a week and had trial lessons, got to know eachother etc.I met this guy there, it wasn't quite 'love at first sight' but it was pretty close. We hit it off straight away and spent the week chatting shyly whenever we got the chance and generally flirting, albeit a little bit awkwardly. After the first day he added me on myspace and I got his number.The thing I'm worried about is whether we'll rush into things too much - we definitely both like eachother, thats for sure - and it be awkward? Should I be slowing things down and getting to know him first?Thanks, any advice appreciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): wait a minute. you feel you are rushing because you chat and flirt and got his number? this is just silly. your not rushing anything. if you feel that it is a good relationship to try and take off the ground then all the things you are doing is where you have to start. rushing would be pulling him in the next room after two days and having sex with him. relax.. just keep doing what your doing if you like each other.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 It doesn't particularly sound like you are rushing things - when I read the title I thought you were going to say you had slept with him on the first date or something!
Just take it at a pace you feel comfortable at, yes take the time to get to know him, don't feel you have to stay with this guy if you get to know him a bit more and feel he's not for you!
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