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writes:so i met this girl in school about a month ago and we really hit a off quick. We became very tight very fast and within 5 days we had already had a very romantic hookup and we're thinking about becoming a couple. But two days after this, she decided she just wanted to be friends. Not knowing the reason behind this, i thought it was some influence from friends or other reasons, i felt hurt and stupidly ruined any chance of us being friends by means of imature rants and and even though we're "friendly", we're really not friends(if you know what i mean.) Two days ago i found out the reason that she broke things off with me two days into things was because she felt i was too clingy. This was the one scenario i didnt think of and i wish i had known earlier before i made so many stupid mistakes. Since then i sent her a message apologizing for the way i had acted proceeding the "breakup"(if you can call it that), but regardless there is an awkwardness surrounding our conversations now. This is something i will never let happen again but me and this girl had amazing chemistry and im scared that i ruined any chance of us ever being together...What should i do from here? Reply to this Question
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reader, Who +, writes (27 April 2009):
 “What should i do from here?”Live and learn.Remember what you did this time that you did not like and don’t do them next time.Back off a bit from this girl from a while. Try to get to know her better as a casual friend, and have her got to you know you (you two only meet a month ago.) Maybe you will get a second chance with her maybe not. If not you will get plenty of chances with other girls. Best of luck.
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