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writes:okay, i like this boy, i have known him for a little more than a year. we were like best friends but then he moved to another school that isn't too far away from where my dad lives and i come over to my dads every weekend. anyways before i even knew him i asked him out, he said he had a girlfriend, which was true. then we became best friends. he was sooo sweet to me and i could talk to him about anything. well recently i have been sending him messages telling him how much i really like him but i wouldn't let him know who it was. he kept asking "please tell me who you are." it kind of reminds me of that movie "a cinderealla story" anyways i finally got the guts to tell him, he hasnt read it yet but i am really nervous and scared about what he will say. today is valintines day and i really don't want to be rejected. so someone please tell me what i should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): here its simple. you have to wait... horrible as it is...wait. if you chase now, he will go mad and run away.be patient. you have done all the right things....if says no sorry then you at least tried all the right things and its now down to him....
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 February 2009):
You've taken a risk and now you just have to hold your nerve.It's a gamble and could go one way or the other. If he still has a girlfriend though, then he may not be willing to just drop her.Hope for the best but prepare for the worst, as the russians say.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Bobthekittycat +, writes (14 February 2009):
well, there is really not much you can do about the message now anyway seeing as you have already sent it but when you think about it you said you can tell him anything and he is a great friend so even if he doesnt like you in "that" way then if you two are good friends then you should in theory both be able to get over it and also say he does like you, this could be the beginning of something great so isn't it worth just a little risk?
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