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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I fell in love for the first time with a girl that lived down the street from me, we were together for 3 1/2 years then things fell apart. we didn't talk to each other for almost 6 years, she got a new boy friend, i got a new girl friend, but i never stopped loving her, and always wanted to be with her. Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, and her and her boyfriend are having a ton of problems, and i believe they are broken up now as well. A few days ago i got my chance! We meet each other and hung out for a long time, i held her because it was cold outside, it was like we were young again, we flirted a lot! It felt so great! I asked her at the end of the night if she still had feeling for me, she said "i don't know... you just walked back into my life". I don't know what to do but i cant stop thinking about how much i love her and would do anything to be with her it hurts! I know her and her x-boy friend are having problems, I'm scared shes only acting close to me because of him. I don't know what to do, but i cant get her out of my mind! Now she is planing on coming down to visit me for a few days. i don't know how i should act or anything when she is here. should i keep flirting and hope for the best? or what?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (5 November 2010):
 dont push her just cause u used to date some time ago.
be cool,positive,and dont act like two love birds. be a man about it.if shes still with the other guy,respect her relationship.
if shes not with him...dont make her feel uncomfortable. they prolly broke up recently u dont wanna hurt her.
keep it casual,a bit flirty but nothing extravaganza.
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