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writes:im really worried about my sister. i dont know what to say to her. her ex ex ex boyfriend has just been put into prison, shes heartbroken, shes never really gotten over him, they had a baby together but sadly she lost it, shes only 17, and im 16, we are so close. but recently shes been sleeping with a few other boys, and just generally letting herself go, i dont know what i can do to get my sister back, im really scared in case something happens to her, please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): if you havent already done so, talk to her about it.
maybe you can both go out together during the day, go shopping, just for a walk, ice skating, cinema, anything like that just keep her busy, keep her mind off things and just generally let her know your there for her.
im 16 too and although my sister is 23 we're really close and tell each other everything so i know how hard it must be for you not knowing what to do. if you need anyone to talk to about it you can always message me.
good luck, i hope all goes well xxx
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reader, Lizzybeth01  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Have you tried talking to her? If you haven't, let her know how worried you are! Let her know (and see) that you are there for her whenever she needs it and that you will always be a shoulder for her to cry on. Just knowing that you're there might help her get through this tough time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Do you think maybe she is doing drugs? When a person changes their behavior in such a way you describe it could be an indecation of drug-use. It's understandable that she is upset over her ex being incarserated, but the sleeping with guys and letting herself go, tells me there is more going on!
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