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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I miss my ex boyfriend very much. I am keeping myself busy and socialising but nothing is working. Countless times everyday he goes through my head. He still wants me in his life but as friends, as we didn't work out as a couple. I don't know what to do... I haven't seen him over some time now and I can't seem to move on.... I really try!!! I am going crazy over the fact that he didn't once try to patch us up or even ask how I am doing. It's sad!!! I would find comfort in him seeing me with another guy just for the sake of his reaction...would he even care... I never know where he hangs out though to do a thing like that...pathetic...
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reader, anon40  +, writes (1 August 2008):
I have been in this situation too and fully understand how you must be feeling. It is actually a grieving process you are doing through and i know it sounds a cliche....but it will only get easier in time. T depends on the individual, but in my case it took several months before i began to feel as though i was coping.
To be honest, as it wasnt your decision to break up-it would be a huge mistake for you to remain friends. Most people who do the breaking up, say that to try and ease the burden of the break-up, and it is not always a good thing. The less you see of him, the better it is for you...and you MUST think about you.
Everyone reacts to a breakups differently, and it will take as long as it takes-please dont rush the process.
I really hope that you have the support of family and friends, as they will be the people that get you through this.
take care and please try and look after you-that is the most important thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): you've got to give it time to get over him.
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