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I'm really confused!! First he turned me down..then asks me out, but he's moving!! Why is he doing this?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

Theres this guy who ive known since about march this year. I really like him and we talk alot because we share a college class together. We would often get together and study out of class as well. Anyway one night I sent him a message asking him out, but he never replied. Next time I saw him at college he told he had to move back to his home town! I was so devestated. Anyway, then just tonight he sent me a message asking me out-no college work involved. I am so confused as to why he turned me down before and why now, after he knows he has to leave?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the responses,

just another thing to add that may help, hes moving in a couple of weeks, for 6 months, then he will be coming back.

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (13 June 2008):

dearkelja agony auntI'm thinking he didn't respond because he didn't want to lead you on. Now that he's told you he's moving, you can't go and get your hopes up with him. I don't think this will lead anywhere so just treat it as a good time with a good friend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Hey hun, i dont know this for definite but it could be that he didnt want to say yes and if he already knew he was going to have to move. but if he has moved, or he has throught about it then maybe he realises it could work out. It sounds like he likes you back. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Sorry to tell you but this is something only he can answer!! LOL

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