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writes:A few months ago, I asked a girl out, and she said no, because she had a girlfriend. I was determined to stay good friends with her and we became closer and closer. Recently, she started kissing me and confessed that she liked me and had been unable to get over me. She told her girlfriend about what happened, was forgiven, and they're still together. But I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me, and I know I still have feelings for her. I've no idea what I should do, what do people advise?
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Yeah, what have you got to lose? I wouldn't pressure her saying "Do you like me or not???". I'd just sit her down and tell her something along the lines of "I know you're in a relationship, but I really care about you and have strong feelings for you. I know you're in a relationship but I just want you to know how I feel about you and that I think about you all of the time."
That way you're not flat out putting her on the spot, pressuring her... but also there is no doubt about your feelings for her. If she doesn't make the move or end her relationship with this girl it means she cares about her. At that point there's really not much else you can do.
Good luck.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (29 March 2010):
Just move on and waste no more time on people you cannot understand and who are not sure what they want? Do not make things worse for yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): I think you should ask her straight out
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