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writes:My family says I'm really pretty, and there are times when i see my self and I'm pleased with what i see, not meaning to sound big-headed. However, despite flirting in moderation with guys and making sure I look my best all of the time, I never get any attention. I'm sick of being the one dancing with my girlfriends, and not guys. Sick of being the one that always sets people up, and is never set up. Sick of being the one to be happy for my friends when they get asked out, and I am, I just want it for myself i guess.Anyone got any tips to help boost my confidence, get me more male interest, or just help me get through the days when I just feel to insignifigant??
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reader, mitta +, writes (19 December 2006):
Being sexy isnt just about being pretty, or being skantily clad. Men find confidence sexy, they like a woman who isnt desperate. Your problem here is that you are looking for the attention to give you confidence but it has to work the other way round. I used to have pretty much the same problem, so I lost loads of weight and changed my hair. Even if I say so myself I looked pretty fabulous, but still got no attention. It was really getting me down until i just decided i didnt care about men anymore and that id look how i wanted to look for me. This gave me a lot more self confidence and then the guys started queing at my door. Also if you are a pretty girl sometimes guys think that you wouldnt be interested in them because you are out of their league or something. Maybe you should show them that you are interested, flirt a little more, pay them more attention etc. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): why don't you try asking them out? maybe that will work..
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