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writes: IVE BEEN WITH MY BFRIEND FOR AROUND 2 YEARS NOW,IN THE FIRST YEAR I WAS A BAD GFRIEND I CHEATED ON HIM WHICH I REGRET TOTALLY NOW PLUS I ALSO LOST HIS BABY WHICH STILL HURTS NOW.HE DID LEAVE ME IN JAN 2005 AND WENT OF WITH MY SO CALL BEST MATE WHICH HURT AS I LOST BOTH BUT ON FEB 14 2005 WE STARTED TXTING AND DID START SEEING EACH OTHER AGAIN IVE NOT CHEATED OR EVEN LOOKED AT ANOTHER BLOKE SINCE BEENING BACK WITH HIM ANYWAY I AM 32WKS PREGNANT BY HIM AND JUST FOUND OUT BY LOOKING AT HIS FONE THAT HE HAD BEEN SEEING ANOTHER GIRL AT XMAS AND SLEEPING WITH ME PLUS HE ALSO ASKED MY EX MATE TO MARRY HIM ONLY 7WKS AGO
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (10 March 2006):
I completely agree with willywombat you should dumb him. i have to admit that your first year of your relationship sound a lil like mine. i cheated on my boyfrend and i lost our baby, at the moment were on a break. but i would like to believe that if he was seeing someone else he would tell me.
yout boyfriend shows little reapect for you or your friend. how could he be sleeping with you and planning to ask your friend to marry him. this guy is a waste of time and effect. i know it be hard to dumb him as you may feel that you need him right with you having his baby and all. but you should he's hurt you and only will hurt you more if you stay with him.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 March 2006):
I know you are 32 weeks pregnant and I know you probably think that this is partly your fault but it is not. He should at least do you the courtesey of ending your relationship before he goes off messing with other girls.
Dump him. And do it now whilst your self esteem is still at least partially intact. Who knows what STD's he could bring home to you and your unborn child while he is playing away...so go to your Gp and get tested.
Then confide in a good friend or family member and get them to help you and stand by you and kick his ass out the door.
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