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writes: Firstly I have to telll all of you that I am a Thai lady. Actually Thai lady can marry just only once and we cannot get pregnant before getting married. Whoever does that must be punished from the society, like gossiping etc. All of you may be American or European, you can accept the situation like this. But here someone is not like that. I had sex with my boyfriend with using the tore condom. I did not know that. My boyfriend is a very good guy. He is not handsome or rich. I don’t know why do I like him and let him do that to me. Three weeks ago I was so sick. Then I went to the hospital. The doctor told me that I was pregnant. I felt like I was so crazy. I have never felt before in my life. I cannot get pregnant before getting marriage. My father is gonna yell at me and kick me out from his house. This is the most embarrassing thing which I ever did in my life. My father is not gonna like my boyfriend, because he is not rich. I tried to do suicide so many times. I have no way out. Please give me some direction. Mrs. Sorapong
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reader, rue  +, writes (25 June 2009):
I trust you kept the baby. God bless
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reader, missdee +, writes (8 September 2005):
I am a American but I understand what you are going through. Please don't think about hurting yourself, there are other things you can do. You didn't say how old you are but perhaps you can go somewhere and have the baby and give it up for adoption. Then return home and nobody has to know. If you are not of legal age you will have to talk to your parents. Perhaps your mother, since you are afraid of your dad. I know they will be upset but you need to talk to them or someone and get some help.
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reader, Tabitha +, writes (5 September 2005):
As a fellow Asian, I understand the stigma attached to this, but at the same time, there are other more pressing issues to think about besides the bad mouthing i.e gossip in your area. I am currently a medical student in a western country. I know the gravity of this issue. And I would advice you to seek a doctor's advice. It is confidential. And if you can, take your boyfriend along with you. Tell him that it is important that he knows this so that the both of you can make an informed decision about this. Think of the baby, and not of what society conforms you to do or think. I hope this helps!
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