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age
36-40,
*chard
writes: MY child's father is the best man I ever had.But everyone else sees different. I lived with him at his mothers for 1yr. and at first he had a very serious cheating problem. Now I'm pregnant and I haven't had that problem.He just likes to hang out alot with friends he grew up with.But I know that they carry his old ways and might encourage him to go that route.I'm very aggressive toward him now. I'll even hit him if that's what it takes for him to listen to me.Because nothing else seems to work.Well yesterday I hit him for trying to leave without giving me more than 20 dollars.When all week long I'll give him money until I'm broke. He choked me and I'm pregnant and I bit him in order to get him off of me. His mother kicked me out, and me loving him so much I begged her to come back.We'll she told me no and now I'm at my father's house. Him and his wife tells me he's a boy and not ready to grow up.That I should totally move on with my life, and take care of my child. my fear is that when I'm stable and I want to be a family with him, he will have moved on because of how aggressive I've been in this relationship.Is it my fault? Should I try to make it work since he's been trying to make me happy? He still wants to be with me but the question is will I continue to go though ups and downs now that we're not living together will he be looking for somebody else. I NEED ANSWERS BECAUSE IF I ASK HIM HE GONNA TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR.Oh! and hes only 18 we've been together since he was 16 and i just turned 20 if that helps any.
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reader, dchard +, writes (15 May 2007):
dchard is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks LOVE HIM YOU ADVICE WORKED AND WAS GREAT i WAS OFFERED TO MOVE BACK BUT I'M GOING TO GET US OUR OWN
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reader, dchard +, writes (15 May 2007):
dchard is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEVERYTHINGS GOING WELL IM TAKING ANGER MANAGEMENT HIS MOTHER FORGIVES ME AND WERE HAVING A HEALTHY GIRL THANKS ALOT.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 chick u shudnt hit him no matter wat, k, the agressiveness will have deffinatly had an affect on the relationhhip for sure, u need 2 apologise to him for all the behaviour you have produced and also apologise to his mother for all the hassel wchich has been produced by the situation. explain your feelings and if this lad likes you enough to take you back then good on him but if not, then there is nothing else id sugest doing.
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