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writes:Here's the situation - this guy I have know for over a year. Works at his family business. When i first met I thought too handsome, must live with someone.Got friendly with his sister as they both work p/t in family hairdressers. Found out he is a single parent of twins, does the same jiob as me and have a lot in common. I felt she tried pushing as next thing I knew I was in his chair and he was asking me lots of personal questions some of which I felt uncomfortable about e.g. do I live with anyone.Time when by and he started really growing on me. I was enquiring about music lessons for my son and one of the staff stated that he knew a place. Gave him my card with my number on. He made no contact and the next time I saw him he was really off with me and his friend started coming on to me. I felt like dying. After that I thought he is not interested.I played hard and avoided him and did not ask about him. The few times I did see him after, he just kept staring at me. I thing he picked up on the awwardness but I do feel he is attracted to me as I am to him.The thing is that he is friendly with my so to be called bf. His mum and sisters are really nice to me,.I keep dreaming of change but I do noit want to set myself up to be hurt. I can play hard for as long as possible.I want to go out with him and get to knw him better even as a friend. I did some reach on him just to find out that he may be developing prostate cancer as his father died of this. this touched me even more.The last time I went tot he business I ignored him as much as I could. We eventually acknowledge each other and he gave me an intimate kiss which felt more then a friendly peck on the cheek. I felt really submerged and the other hairdressers looked rather surprised. this is infront of his mum as well!I plan to pass by this week and I hope to see him.Any advice welcomed. Reply to this Question
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