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writes: I am having problems with my boyfriend. The relationship started as an affair from his end - he got caught and I gave him a temporary place to stay (my bed). Six months later it seems he is still there. I have an opinion of "they do it with you, they do it to you" so have resigned myself to the fact that he will cheat if he hasn't already. I hadn't let any of this bother me until now as I thought this was just a little fun (and good sex). However things have changed and I now find myself on the offensive (if I am not faithful it wont hurt as much if I find out he has been too). I think I am about to get caught. I really like him and it is borderline love, but I can't see him just being with one girl. I do enjoy the benefits of having him at home ( especially the cooking and washing). What to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2005): The best advice I can give is get the fuck away from it all. Although it may be exciting sneaking around, etc, think of the future. You don't want to be left on the shelf while he still has his partner. Sex may be good between you two but he will always have ties. He may even have kids; if so run and run fast. Talking from experience and I never had an affair, I just got involved with someone with a kid and - guess what - you never win. The past life always comes back to haunt you.
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