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writes:Hello I wrote a few days back about wanting to give up on having a man in my life and just want to say that no one seemed to understand what I was asking for help on. I don't want to date any man anymore for the rest of my life. I want to know how to stop the thought of not wanting a man in my life? (ModNote: your last sentence has not been altered. But it seems to contradict what you are asking?) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2012): It sounds like you've had a rough time in the dating world. Honestly, stay away from dating websites, bars, do not sleep with men in the first 2 months and just surround yourself around good people. Pick up hobbies, surround yourself with girlfriends and family, focus on improving yourself (education/gym/travel).
Unfortunately, overcoming the desire to find love is very difficult. Its only human nature to want to find that special someone. Get to a better place in your life and along that journey someone wonderful will join you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 May 2012):
 If you want to delete your drive for sex I would recommend Paxil (an anti-depressant) as that has a serious side effect of destroying libido.
but the issue is that you are asking to go against nature...
the mod is correct you are asking to get help in giving up men in your life and yet you say you still want it.
perhaps maybe you want to figure out how to make better choices in men?
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reader, Abella +, writes (14 May 2012):
 Hi
I've tried again and I've posted another answer to your earlier question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-give-up-on-wanting-a.html
So I hope my second try is the answer you were looking for - for your earlier question. And I hope it helps.
I also wondered if some acupuncture or even some professional hypnotherapy might help lessen any need to ever want a man in your life ever again.
Maybe a doctor could also discuss some aversion therapy as well?
Where you visualize something repulsive whenever you find yourself starting to think about this problem - the problem of wanting to stop thinking about the possibility of a man returning to your life.
Best wishes
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