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writes:Hello. Ok i am having trouble with this boy. I really like him but hes 3 years older than me hes 15 and im 12. Do i lie to him about my age?. I met him about 1 week ago. and we talk on msn and everything. We get on great. But im scared that if i tell him im 12 he wont like me anymore. Im really confused about what to do. Please can you help me?Thank you loads.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): Do not lie to him. Twelve is a great age to be, so just be twelve for now, don't try to be anything else. You are too young for a 15 year old to have as a girlfriend (at least for now) but you can still be friends and its great to have a guy who is your friend.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Sweetheart,
you are still young but that doesn't mean you are foolish.
You don't want to start out a relationship based on a lie.
Besides, you are still young and there is no reason whatsoever to push things too hard. There is plenty of time to have boyfriends.
You are still a kid so enjoy being a kid for awhile. Believe me, it won't be long and you will wonder where all the years went and you will wish you hadn't taken them for granted.
Definitly though, don't lie. Doc.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Don't lie about your age. If you want to have a relationship and you're sure you're ready for this then you need to know that honesty is the number 1 thing. Your age might put him off but finding out you lied further down the line will mean he never speaks to you again. Remember that if things don't work out because of your age it's not the end of the world. Just give it time and next time try looking in your own age group but seriously, there's no rush. Enjoy your youth before you get caught up in all these silly relationship dramas.
CD
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reader, Alex-kid123 +, writes (13 February 2007):
 i don't really know what to do... but i wouldn't lie. u know why? if he finds out ever, he will lose all trust with you then break up. i don't know what to do on the other hand, i don't know what to do. but lying is difinatly not an option here.i really do hope i helped!--Alex
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