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writes:I really like my partner and if we were to split up I would really miss them and be very upset but I am so tired of them never contacting me.. Reply, yes! but actually make contact, sadly no! We live over an hour away so ony get to see each other at weekends but all other time there is just silence between us unless i make the first move.. I am sick of it and am really wondering what the hell i am doing in a relationship like this!.. Surely a good relationship shouldnt be like this? and I get so fed up with waiting for the phone to ring i just give up and once again i make the first move.. They say its just cos they never even think of picking up their phone even if they have it right infront of them but to me that just means that they cant be thinking of me either or just dont want to talk to me?.. I find it really rude and very hurtful as we do get on so well but i must admit i am on the verge of telling them to get lost and go and find someone who doesnt give a damn and maybe then i'll find someone who wants to talk to me simply cos they want to... I am quite a rational person on the whole and i'm not wanting contact 24/7, I just want them to make an effort.. Is that asking too much? Can anyone either pull me back from dumping them here or tip me over the brink and get rid of them for good.... PLEASE!!!!Very Frustrated and Annoyed!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 I am attempting to tip you over the brink. I do think if he cared he would call. He isn't thinking of you, you aren't foremost on his mind so he doesn't call. You deserve better. Believe me, I was in your shoes and everyone on this site told me I could do better but it took months for me to realize that "why in the heck am I trying so hard to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me?" Makes no sense. So, if I were you, I would stop contacting this person and just see what happens. If they call you, fine, go out, etc but for the next several times, stop making it so darn easy for them. It takes two to make a successful relationship. Make them do their part.
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