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male
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30-35,
*mit thakur
writes:recently my friend has changed, we were friends for over an year, she used to talk to me daily , message me daily and we used to talk a lot, i always liked her, i still do .problem is recently she has changed, she dont message me daily and doesnt respond to mine, she talks very less, and whenever she doesnt , it starts coming to my mind that she is talking to another guy and thats why i am no longer interesting to her, i am so so obsessed by her i dont know why, i keep thinking about her all day, i want to end this obsession, i have tried many things, i keep myself busy, i do my hobbies but no matter what i do i still keep thinking about her, whenever she doesnt message me i get depressed, i want to be okay with it , i dont now what else to do to stop my obsession of her, i spend my time with my other friends, keep myself busy, but still this obsession is growing with time,, could someone help me what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2014): Keep doing exactly what you're doing.
Sometimes it takes time to break a habit. You've invested far too much of your time in her, and you didn't really have a romantic connection. You grew attached.
Now you have to wean yourself off from looking forward to her contact. Time and circumstance will readjust your subconscious-mind to accept the fact that she's not into you.
You're resisting the reality that she doesn't want you that way. You're not obsessing. The subconscious-mind is stubborn.
You're feeling loss and grief for someone you truly like. That's normal.
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