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writes:okay so i just turned 19... ive always been a shy mellow gurl until i turned 16. be fore that i was always so focused in school and fling college apps. now i graduated form hs.a nd go to college. i wanted to go out of town for college but my mom trick me into feeling gyuilty about it. now im going to san francisco for the summer.. now i have met up with some girlfriends of mine from hs...and one og my gurls has invited me to a pool party at her place... ihavent seen her in over a year now my mom is having a cow because im going to this party.. fyi it aint no crazy people doing drugs and drinkin kindda party ... its more like hanging out, swiimimg water fighting and lots of gammes lotts of foood.... thing is my parents to seem to bea ble to let go off me.l. they still see me as a little shy school focused girl. new flash im not her any more.. i love being out with my friends and enjoying the day... im hyper and very active person... they dont get it... they tell me to go out but when i do i end up getting yelled at.... what can i do to makethem realize im 19 and not their little gurl ..???????? its totally bringing me down and making me fall in to deppression...
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 It's hard for parents to let go. You'll always be their "little girl."
Are you in college now? Perhaps if you went away to school, your parents would chillax a bit when they began to see you holding your own. When you live at home, parents worry about you, but when you're away, they tend to be more confident in you. it's counterintuitive, but it's true. Perhaps you could transfer to a university out of town, and the distance would grant you the independence you desire.
Que te sea leve.
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