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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago, due to "loss of attraction" although, looking back it was probably because I was an immature d*ck and took to many risks. She dumped me randomly though, literally a week after drawing me an elaborate picture (which she framed) that said "I love you" in a beautiful cute font. We had a regular relationship like most people, but with a few problems (mostly immaturity, like trying to make each other jealous via flirting with other people or in her case talking about hot guys) and then it just randomly ended. During the course of the past four months, we've both found crushes. But both just lost interest in them (hers in a nasty way, she hates the guy now because of the stuff he pulled ). And I find myself talking to her, discussing this and I feel a "connection" call me a superstitious little freak, but it just felt right. I'm not sure if I should go back for her again, but I find myself thinking about her all the time, and wishing it hadn't ended.....at the same time, I'm also speculating whether or not I'm mature enough or not for another go....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 April 2013):
 IF you think you want to try it again with her, then the best thing to do is ask her if she is willing. IF she is not, then it might be best for you to go no contact with her as seeing her will just hurt you more and more.
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