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writes:I recently found out my husband has lied to me. You will all probably think its a stupid small white lie but to me its a big thing. His mobile phone beeped a text message through the other day and when he looked at it he said it was just a delivery report from a message he had sent me earlier. I knew this was a lie as just an hour before i had looked at his messages and the delivery report he was going on about was already in his inbox. I asked him again later on that evening who the message was from and he still insisted it was a delivery report so i told him i knew he was lying. He said it about 5 times that it was a delivery report until i told him how i knew he was lying. Then he told me that since he went onto yell.com on his phone that hes been getting these texts that say dirty things and a number if he wants to know more. He said the reason he didn't tell me was he didn't want to cause a row between us. I'm not sure i believe him. I don't know what to do and my heads in a spin thinking what he could be up to. Help!
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 Sounds to me like there's something here that you're not writing. You must have been suspicious of him to begin with, or you wouldn't be in a habit of checking your husbands cell phone.
If he never cheated or lied to you before, then I suggest you try to overlook the SMS thing. Try to find out at yell.com if there's some way of getting his cell phone off the dirty commercials list.
On the other hand, if he has cheated on you before, the matter lies in a totally different light.
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