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I'm not particularly good looking, do you think I'm in with a chance?

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Question - (12 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

looks matter alot dont they? i really like this girl and she's quite pretty but has never had a boyfriend because she's really shy and hard to approach.

well there's me who has kinda broken the barrier and can talk to her sometimes at school and every night on msn.

i'm not good lookin, so i think why would she ever consider me when there's so many good lookin guys out there?

although i'm not good looking i'm quite popular and have lots of friends, i think i have a great personality.

what are you views? i'm crazy about her!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

You have a great personality, that is more important than looks any day. Some great looking people are really horrible. One saying i heard on tv recently "You are a cracking looking girl but a nasty person". always remember that. Beauty comes from within and cannot be hidden. Make her laugh, be yourself, stay true to your being, love life etc that will keep you young and handsome.

Stop worrying, i bet you are a cracking looking lad with a gorgeous nature.

Take care

xx

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A female reader, dragonette Sweden +, writes (13 March 2007):

dragonette agony auntI've fallen for lots of guys that were not conventionally good looking and I know that even if a person is really "ugly" they always have something good looking about them like nice cheek bones, or really graceful hands. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and once you get to know somebody you usually forget about how their empty looks (like shiny hair or a well-shaped butt) and focus on the things that are more connected to who they are like their mischievous smile or playful eyes, or the way they move their hands when they talk. And of course, even those things are secondary to the fun that you're having together with the person.

So in spite of what the media would like you to believe, looks is far from everything.

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A male reader, Kody  Ireland +, writes (13 March 2007):

DudE

Looks are good but a relationshipp depends not on how you look or dress its what kind of a person you are.Sounds like she likes you so shoot for the moon take a chance 10 to 1 she feels the same.

Kody

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

cd206 agony auntBelieve me, looks are only important before you know someone. I truly believe that looks are what attract us to a person but personality is what keeps us there. Sounds like she's already interested in you so your level of attractiveness shouldn't really matter all that much. However try and have a little more confidence in yourself because someone with low self esteem will never succeed.

CD

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