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writes:I've been with a guy for a year now and he annoys me a lot.. he doesn't give me attention, he doesn't like to talk to me on the phone he always ignores me he cheated on me the first couple of months and he blamed it on alcohol now he doesnt drink and i can see he changed a lot for me, i know that he loves me but.. i dont know whats wrong with him is it possible he got bored, or is he talkin to someone else? there's no way hes cheating on me because we spend most of the time together but whenever we're together he hates to listen to me when im bugged because he doesnt like to hear that he is wrong. and it really bothers me.. i'm not only in love with him in attached to him too.. what do you think i should do? im really lost..
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (28 October 2007):
 i understand completely that it is hard for you to leave him but it really has to be done. just leave him with the thought that there is someone much better for you out there who will feel the same way you do and who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. if you stay with this guy you will only end up a shadow of your former self and will end up probably in a violent relationship where he will cheat on you and you won't be able to say anything against him. He is rendering you completely powerless. Please leave him for your own sake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim attached to him its very hard for me to leave him.. how can i make him listen to me.. a lot of things bothers me and i cant do anything about it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm attached to him its very hard for me to leave him.. how can i make him listen to me.. a lot of things bothers me and i cant do anything about it..
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (23 October 2007):
You sound like a glutton for punishment. You've gotten yourself into a rut here where you "think" you love him. This doesn't sound like love at all. It just sounds like you can't let go of him because he is always there and you're frightened of what life might be like when there is no one to fall back on. He treats you like crap but he knows that you will put up with it because you think you need him but you don't. This is not a healthy situation for either of you. He is controlling you and making you feel as if you can't live without him. In a normal situation of "love" this would be acceptable but he is treating you badly so it's just a case of control and manipulation. Move on girlfriend, there's plenty more fish in the sea!
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