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writes: I'll try and make this as short as possible, well I am involved with this guy my ex hes such a nice guy and we still love eachother very much, but, i went out last night and ended up out later than planned. Well he turned up and he and my friend argued really bad and she started pushing him. I didn't know what to do i didn't want to choose between them. Then this girl who he knows, stopped it and he is being horrible to me for not doing anything, how do i make him understand?Now he says he doesnt want to bother with me, i think its because of my friend and now someone has been lying to him tell him I've been seen places I wasn't in and he thinks that I'm lying! Which I'm not. I'm getting very frustrated because I know the truth but he won't listen. What can I do? I dont want to loose him please help me its making me sick with upset. thanx x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): he's hurt because he still cares about you and he thought he had a bond with you, so when you didnt come to his defence, he got annoyed. just give him space. i thought you did the right thing by not getting involved. eitherway you could have lost your ex or your friend. you wont lose him if he genuinley cares about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): Sorry, but you can't lose something you never had. He's gone, and until he changes his attitude about you, here is no going back. Get your own life in order, decide what is important in the men you date, and the people you spend time with, and then start dating again. This guy should be ashamed of himself for listening to gossip, but if he is that kind of guy- who prefers to believe gossip rather than you- he is not much of a loss for you. You will get over it.
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reader, Tim +, writes (28 November 2005):
 make ur mind dont play tom and jerry games in a relationship to get more pleasure in bed by having two guys my ex is so nice but my b/f is excellent try to have two guys that isn't wot a nice girl choose to do, you are not a blue movie actress unless you wanna be one and want more, go out with one guy and you are in love with another coz still u love ur ex and you can't forget him and his love always in ur mind.Why dont u dump one and stop making people fighting each other for you.Good luck
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