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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together. We have had our good times, and we have also had a lot of bad times. I love him so much. And I believe he loves me too. But he shows it in a negative way a lot. We both have our flaws, but the one I am concerned about is his brother. He has a twin brother that I have known longer than him. My boyfriend has a hard time saying no to his friends, girls, and his brother. I am not trying to keep him from his brother or anything. But this weekend his brother and NEW girlfriend are coming into town for Thanksgiving. He is going to be here for a week and 1/2. Everytime he is getting ready to visit or we are going there, my boyfriends starts fighting with me. So he has an excuse to get out of the house and do whatever. I don't want him to make me look stupid in front of his brother and his new girlfriend, by him saying I can't go with. He is barely talking to me right now, and I don't know how to react. I want to fight back with him, but I know it will make things worse. I need some help finding on how I can handle the situation if he decides to go out without me, and be OK with it. Please if anyone has any advice, That would be nice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): And you be ok with it? ok everyone else?I'd plan to be out of there Friday at noon. Use the baby not like being away from her usual environment as an excuse and head back early. You should be able to hold it together that long and the inlaws woudl get to see the kid.Let the bf stay for a while
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