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I'm not going to tell my boyfriend it's not his kid. I'm confused and need help.

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Question - (7 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Just a few weeks ago I stayed home from school because I was sick and was bored. So I to myspace to check my stuff and talk to my other friends who are sick too. So I checked my boyfriend's myspace in I seen he was talking to his ex. He wanted to hangout with her and asking her to meet him at his work place. She typed back and said ok but she had to work and why dont his come and visit her at her place (job).

I got mad I gone off on him when he got home from school. But there this little devil inside me telling me go ahead and do what I "was" known for: Sleeping around with other guys. So last weekend I slept with a guy my boyfriend hates so much and I'm pregant with that guys baby. But I'm not going to tell my boyfriend its not his kids. I thought it would be wrong... I neeed help, it's too confusing!

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A female reader, xmeganx United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

xmeganx agony aunti think you need to tell him its not his... its all ok sniping at each other but you cant use a child as an object of spite.. thats just awful. And the child needs to know who their father is. Dont be so selfish!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

Reality Check!!!!!

22 still in school how u going to support a baby? But the big give away "But there this little devil inside me telling me go ahead and do what I "was" known for: Sleeping around with other guys" If this is common knowledge won't your b/f ask for a DNA test?

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (7 December 2007):

rockelle agony auntAre you seriously 22-25????? A 15 year old sounds more likely to ask a question like this.

After one week how do you know that you are pregnant?

After reading your post it sounds like you need to stop worrying about your boyfriend and take some time to grow up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

You slept with this guy just last weekend and you know you are pregnant already! How can you tell so fast? Am i missing out on something here? Stop looking into his myspace stuff for a start and if you have to then have a chat with him and let him know what you read and ask him to explain just what is going on.

take care

xx

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