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I'm not attracted to either gender. Is something wrong with me?

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Question - (26 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi, well here it is plain and simple. I am not attracted to girls or guys. i am disgusted when it comes to sexual relationships and things like that. i find the human body, of both males and females, to be beautiful, but i am in no way attracted to either of them physically. so here is the question. am i normal? what is wrong with me? in talking with friends about sexual experiences i cannot add because i am really not that into it. is there anyone else like me?

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A female reader, unzola United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2009):

hi, am actually pretty much the same lol am not attracted to either sex, i find sex pretty disgusting aswell and human bodies are beautiful doesn't matter what sex, am not as young as you am actually 19, i think at a young age it could be natural (mixed hormones) am not actually worried about it or anything, i never have been.when i was in school my friends would be checking out guys i would be like yeh whatever. i never dated a male or had any sexual relationships and don't look forward to.I think as long as your surrounded by something you like its fine, so chill. i seriously don't think you have anything to worry about. you still got a long time to go. relax.i hope u don't think am a weirdo loool

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

well I don't know how old you are so this could not pertain to you at all...a lot of kids now adays are in 'relationships' when they are 13, 14 years old...I never understood that. I never went through a boy crazy phase when I was little, I pretended a little for my friends. I was never interested in guys until I was almost 17. All of a sudden one day it just switched on.

Maybe you are asexual like the other suggested or maybe you are like me. I found people attractive but that was all had no desire for anyone. And everything involving sexuality grossed me out back then also...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

There is nothing wrong with you. As Frank B Kermit said you are asexual.

You are not alone.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (26 June 2008):

Frank B Kermit agony auntYes, there are others like you. They are called asexual.

There is an entire community online for asexuals to learn about asexuality. This site is led by a guy named David Jay.

I did an interview with him and you can listen/download it for free at my radio site.

Radio site with the interview: www.FBKradio.com

Site for asexuals: http://www.asexuality.org/

Hope this helps.

-Frank B Kermit

www.FBKRadio.com

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