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I'm not angry that he stopped calling, I'm angry because he wasn't man enough to tell me he couldn't talk to me due to his relationship with his ex.

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Question - (22 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I was strictly friends with a guy for 2 months. We talked, texted, email and inbox one another on facebook like twice a week. He told me the 2nd time we talked on the phone that him and his ex-wife had been divorced for four years. They ended back together but he doesn't know how it happened, he thought they would ever be together again and he just still didn't know how ended back with her. He said she went to her church I guess for guidance or something. So he told me they trrrrying to work it out, but he always use trying in long term status. It sounded like he was trying to convince himself. All of sudden the last 2 weeks he hasn't spoken to me, text or even emailed me. He called me 2 1/2 weeks ago when I was at the doctor but that same day he didn't make any indication that he wouldn't be excepting my calls or call me. But he rides by my house every day, he use to ride by here once out of a week he said he was checking his surroundings out (meaning my home). But I told him Goodbye 3 weeks before that because I was giving his ex-wife respect. He made feel like he was having some feelings towards me which I like and care for him. I'm not pissed that he stopped calling I'm pissed because he wasn't man enough to tell me he couldn't talk to me due to his relationship with his ex.

[Mod note: "pissed" means "angry" in the American vernacular.]

I'm not going to call etc him either but I do miss our blossoming friendship. I believe his ex read my last email to him without his knowledge and I feel she has a part in him not speaking to me. He went into this relationship foot first and head last. I gave him my blessings from my heart. But something still has me believing its not going to work out for either of them. What do you guys think of this situation?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011):

In the two months of your friendship, from beginning to end, he was truthful about wanting his ex back. Looks like she was willing to get back with him and he was going to do anything he could to get her back, including not having opposite sex friendships.

This was his wife and you are someone he had a few email exchanges with on fb...not really much of a comparison!! And you weren't his girlfriend and you weren't dating so he wasn't obligated to let you know anything at all really.

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