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I'm not a lesbian but how do I avoid hurting their feelings?

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Question - (2 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi,

i have two friends, lets call them Georgina, Laura and Chloe. For a dare a while ago i kissed all three of them.

the other day we were having a sleep over and they all started talking about and then things started to get really raunchy.

they all started making out and wanting to make out with me. i dont want to tell them that im not a lesbian but i dont want to hurt their feelings seeing as they are all clearly lesbians.

what should i do?

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A female reader, SEB United States +, writes (4 October 2008):

just tell them that you really arent lesbian nor bi. say you cant help the way you feel.

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A female reader, snazzynazzybrev United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2008):

I would just come out with it and say sorry but it was just a bit of fun, im into guys.

It won't hurt their feelings, let them know youre okay with their sexuality and that youre not teh same.

Hope this helps =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008):

You are are kinda young. It's quite possible that your friends are not neccessarily lesbians, but just curious. What would be so bad about giving it a try? Are you afraid you might like it? If you're really not comforable doing it with them, just say so. Personally, I'd go for it. You don't know what you're missing out on. It's a lot of fun, and it won't make you pregnant!

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A male reader, darren1111 United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2008):

darren1111 agony auntjust tell them your not into that, but its not a problem that they are, they could also be winding you up or setting you up

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